I have an ongoing dilema on how to facilitate good discussion. I am opinionated and to the point, but I am also open to discussion. I have no issue stating a fact and being proven wrong. Within the right context, this can lead to some excellent discussions, but I can also feel like a great big hammer crushing other people and their opinions. Which I hate, and never, ever intend.
I am very luck to work along side two other colleagues who are like minded, but rather more polished and refined than me (they know words like Oort and latin and everything ;)).
Anyway, the above article has two simple, and I think very effective tools that I will start adopting.
Hopefully this will be an end to my wife's (who I love dearly) "It isn't what you say, it is the way that you say it" record. If they could manage to use the material that record is made of in engineering, things would last for ever - I know that particular record has ;) :)
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